Many of us are stricken with the inability to make up our minds in life. We wander around in circles, frustrated, as we are unable to make any headway. Why? It’s because we think too much.
Thinking is the culprit in life. It won’t get us any closer to figuring out who we are in a given moment. That is not to say that we shouldn’t gather facts when making a decision – we should. But thinking is not a good tool for deciding.
Then, what is? Our Self, which is an intuitive thing, a natural thing. We feel it in our bodies. If we get quiet and relax, Self appears spontaneously. It’s that still, small voice that doesn’t make sense, yet, is more intelligent than you are and always has your best interest at heart.
So how do we make up our mind? By being ourselves. This may feel weird or illogical, but once you learn to trust you will see it is the best way to make decisions. Don’t know what to do? Be yourself. Don’t know which way to go in your career? Be yourself. Don’t know how to make enough money? Figure out how much you need, then do what yourself has energy for.
But, what if we can’t hear ourself? Then just be; it will come to you in inner quietude.
So, trust yourself. It speaks to you within, and its intelligence is “super” natural (no pun intended). If you learn to follow it you will find a great joy in following its natural flow, and this, in my opinion, is the healthiest and safest way to grow as a human being.